It's not impossible, just painful and unlikely. It's so sad to think that people so young will be stuck wearing 19th century undies when they should enjoy their years of being young and stylish. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. Today was his day off and not one word from him. I know many other nurses that also married young docs, only to have the marriage fail. Doctors want to be with their families and attend events but because of work they just can't. Many Mormons stick to a small group of friends within the church. Some mormon girls are closeted freaks as someone here has already said. She may never join the join the church.
They will serve as a constant reminder to her that she needs to conform- and you won't be wearing any. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life. Rights of all genders are supported here. Now after reading this blog I feel like I made the right choice. Fell in love with his passion for his love for neurology. They even refrain from tea and coffee. He feels obligated so often and wants to be a nice guy I don't think he even realizes how he hurts me when he so often chooses work. The Church encourages you to use dating as an opportunity to show your respect not just for others, but for yourself. But it turns out I need to understand him more than I should be understood Take care of him more than I should be taken cared of. She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP.
If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. I am totally okay with anything that doesn't place physical or mental demands on me. Just stumbled across this site today after trying to find ways to help me cope with dating a Doctor. I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. It should be our time with boys. But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only. I am scared of passing through all this you guys have passed before i even got to this blog i've thought bout it a lot.
If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. Unconditional love, excellent communication, and unwavering support. The issue is that we have really spectacular sex that will often last for hours including foreplay haha, not all PIV, thank God.